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|  Member Contributor — Margot Parker, LMFT  Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy (RO-DBT) Self-control is usually seen as a good thing,  however excessive self-control, also known as over control (OC) is not and can  cause difficulties for people. It can inhibit our ability to connect with  others leading to painful emotional loneliness and social isolation. It can  result in rigid responses and emotional inhibition thought to underlie many  conditions such as chronic depression,  treatment-resistant anxiety disorders, anorexia nervosa, avoidant, paranoid and  obsessive compulsive personality disorders. Radically Open Dialectical  Behavior Therapy (RO DBT) developed  by Doctor Thomas Lynch over more than twenty years of clinical and experimental  research is a new evidence-based treatment that targets over-controlled.  
 As a result of his research, Dr. Thomas Lynch posits  a biosocial theory for disorders of overcontrol. He writes that maladaptive  overcontrol is posited to result from a convergence of three broad factors: 1)  Nature, bi-temperamental and genetic influences, 2)  Nurture, influences having to do with the family, cultural and environmental  factors and learning, 3) Coping, tendencies to exert excessive self-control  under stress, to compulsively fix problems, and to have deficits in prosocial  signaling. As children they present with heightened states of defensiveness, diminished  experiences of spontaneous pleasure, superior capacities for self-control,  distress tolerance, delay of gratification and attention to detail over more  global processing. The nurture component of the OC biosocial theory encourages the  development and maintenance of maladaptive OC, for example, early family  experiences emphasizing mistakes as intolerable and self-control as imperative.  The end result of transactions between the “nature” and “nurture” factors are  hypothesized to lead to the development of an OC maladaptive coping style. The  pre- OC individual learns that if they avoid unplanned risks, mask inner  feelings, remain aloof and distant from others they can reduce the potential of  making a mistake, appearing vulnerable or out of control. This learned  behavior, coping style, limits  opportunities to learn new skills and utilize positive social reinforcers.  
 Margot Parker, M.S., is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of Californian. She has a private practice in Westlake Village. She is intensively trained in RO-DBT and teaches RO-DBT classes in Westlake Village.  She earned her master’s degree in counseling psychology at California State University, Northridge. She has worked as a trauma sensitive yoga instructor at The New Beginnings Center and a grief counselor at Camarillo Hospice. For more information about RO DBT treatment contact Margot at wiseturtlecounseling@gmail.com. or 805.244.5351. | |||||||||||||||||||||
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